Self-Love Is the Key to Getting What You Want
The only step to find the happiness, health, and fulfillment that you crave
Don’t get me wrong, I too cringe when someone mentions “Self-Love”. What comes to mind, is me standing in front of the mirror, telling myself “I LOOOOVE YOU” until the cows come home or I finally believe it. Let me put your mind at ease, this is not what I am doing or what I coach my clients or how this works.
I guess, you don’t walk around asking yourself “How can I love myself more”? BUT are you asking yourself these questions:
Believe me, I so get it.
You are smart and you have made it so far in your life already but you want more. You might have been playing the "when... then" game for a long time. What’s that game?
When this covid stuff finally stops, then I’ll be happy.
When I lose this belly at, then I’ll be able to fit into my clothes again and I’ll be happy.
When I stop feeling so anxious and all over the place, I’ll be happy.
When I meet the partner of my dreams or when my husband is nicer to me, then I’ll be happy.
When I make more money, I’ll be happy.
Sorry but I have to call BS on this! I am sure you guessed it:
I have lots of clients that are rich, slim, successful, and even have a great boyfriend or husband but that doesn’t make them happy either!
Most of us think that we can change how we feel by changing our external lives and circumstances. We try to feel differently by looking outside of ourselves, believing the key is "out there", but the truth is, you're looking in the wrong place. If you don't go within, you go without. When we finally learn to go within and choose love over fear and anxiety, that is when your transformation begins.
We all want to be loved and to be happy. But unless we totally learn how to love, accept and trust ourselves we will never get there.
Believe me, I had to learn this the hard way too and it took me until I was nearly 50.
If you don't go within, you go without.
It’s not an easy route either, it takes a lot of courage and hard work to deep dive into the workings of your own mind, heart and thought constructs. And it takes commitment to yourself and a knowledgeable guide that has the tools to walk alongside you.
But I want you to think about that thing in your life that is constantly plaguing you, hanging over you like a big, black cloud, that is keeping you stuck and unhappy.
Let me tell you: You are good enough.
And it doesn't matter if you don't fit into these jeans, you're currently single or you feel anxious all the time. No amount of online Dates, dieting, or green juices is going to be the key to making you happy and content.
You need to FLY. First Love Yourself.
When you become aware of and cultivate your inner world you naturally start to take action on doing the things that truly light you up. You are you finally ready to have a beautiful relationship with the most important person in your life... yourself.
And that, lovely lady, is the key to getting anything you want.
Curious? Download your FREE Self-Love Worksheet