The reason love keeps playing out the same way isn't your choices. It's your pattern.
A 3-minute Love Pattern Quiz to uncover the relationship pattern you keep repeating — and how to shift it.
Free. 3 minutes. Personalised long-form result.
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The Fortress
You guard your heart to stay safe, but it keeps love at a distance
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The Rescuer
You love by fixing others, often forgetting your own needs
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The Spiral
Overthinking and anxiety pull you into repeated emotional cycles.
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The Almost-Ready
You almost open up, but pull back when it gets real
Which one is yours?
This quiz is for you if:
You’ve tried therapy but still struggle with love.
You keep repeating the same relationship patterns with different people.
You understand your patterns but find it hard to break free from them.
About Susanne
Susanne is a therapist and relationship specialist who works with the places insight hasn't been able to reach. Her method combines EMDR, the Gottman approach, and nervous system regulation to shift relational patterns at the level where they actually live — the body. She works with individuals and couples who are tired of understanding themselves and want to finally feel different.